There might be only one country where the natives prefer you to speak English rather than the native language. And thatâs Sweden. Itâs virtually impossible to learn Swedish by talking to Swedes. All because theyâre so dang keen to show how great at English they are. Sigh.
But fear not! As a half-Swede I can teach you how to say hello in Swedish, and some other useful Swedish phrases thatâll make your time in Sweden all the more enjoyable. And maybe even help you understand those umlaut decorated walls in IKEA.
But thatâs not all. Iâm going to give you the low down on some essential Swedish phrases and other useful information to help you fit in. I hope youâre ready, operation disguise-yourself-as-Swedish has commenced!

A very brief history of Swedish
First though, let’s answer an age-old question. Why do Swedes insist on speaking English? Well, it has a lot to do with multiculturalism.
A thousand years ago, Swedish would have been almost identical to Icelandic. Through immigration and emmigration, Swedish has borrowed words from German, French, Arabic, and especially English. In the 19th century, almost a third of the Swedish population migrated to the USA. We’re also obsessed with American and British TV shows, which says a lot about our comedy scene.
In some cases, Swedes make an attempt to âSwedifyâ foreign words. That is to say, use the foreign word, and then add verb endings or similar so it fits into Swedish grammar. Otherwise, we just straight up steal it. Thatâs why, especially among young people, itâs not uncommon to hear a Swede suddenly exclaim: âOh my GOD, det var NAJS!â (Oh my god, that was nice).
Meet & greet a Swede
So if you run into a SkarsgĂ„rd in Södermalm (it happens all the time), youâll want to know how to introduce yourself. If youâre meeting a Swede for the first time, itâs customary to shake hands and say your own name. This is especially true in a business setting or meeting older Swedes.
In a group of young people, itâs best to introduce yourself by saying your own name, followed by kul att trĂ€ffas (nice to meet you), pronounced: kewl at treff-ass. Sometimes you shake hands, but not so much anymore. And if you want to know whether youâve been accepted by your Swedish friend group, youâll know when they start hugging you. It might take weeks, months, sometimes years to be offered a hug from a Swede. But when they do, youâll be squeezed to oblivion.
Important meeting advice: If youâre invited to a Swedeâs house, you MUST remove your shoes the second you get in the door. Without fail. Same goes for at the dentists, kindergartens, schools. Rule of thumb: If the person greeting you has fuzzy or Happy Socks on, take your shoes off. Donât argue.
Swedish linguistic habits
If youâre learning Swedish and canât think what the verb is called, just use the English word and put an âaâ at the end. Not fail-proof, but Swedes will almost certainly know what you mean.
Swedes also speak using pulmonic ingressive speech, which basically means they say âjaâ (yes) on an intake of breath. This often shocks English speakers as it sounds like whoeverâs speaking is gasping or seems shocked. Itâs most common to hear it in the north of Sweden, but it can be heard all over the country.
With that said, let’s learn some Swedish greetings!

1. “Hi” in Swedish – Hej
Wherever you are in the country, Hej (pronounced âheyâ) is by far the most common way to say hi in Swedish. Occasionally, Swedes will double up and say âhej hejâ. You might even find a Swede who says âHej, hej, hemskt mycket hejâ (Hi, hi, an awful amount of hi).
2. Slang words for “hi” in Swedish – Tja, Tjenna, Tjenare
Hereâs where it gets a little more complicated. Different regions have different ways of saying hi in Swedish colloquially, so apologies to fellow Swedes from outside Stockholm, my native city. I know they use these words too, so thatâs why Iâve settled on them.
Tjenare is the full word for âwhatâs upâ, even though it actually means ‘servant’. It comes from a longer phrase, similar to the archaic English phrase “your servant”. But as we Swedes are punctual and haven’t got time to waste, weâve sliced it in half, and then half again to create tjenna, and tja. All three mean the same thing, and of course theyâre very informal greetings. Pronunciation âshe-nah-reâ for âtjenareâ, âshearnaâ for âtjennaâ and âshaâ for âtjaâ.

3. “Hello” in Swedish – HallĂ„
“Hello” in Swedish is most commonly expressed by saying “hej” in an informal setting. However, hallĂ„ is the correct equivalent of hello in Swedish. The correct pronunciation of âhallĂ„â can be broken down to âhallâ and âlĂ„â, with the âhallâ rhyming with âshallâ and the âlĂ„â rhymes with âmoreâ.
In my experience, âhallĂ„â is used to draw your attention rather than to say hello. For instance, if it looks like you arenât really listening, a Swede may irritably say âhallĂ„?â (Or maybe that’s just me, oops!)
Some Swedes also use the word nĂ€men! (pronounced: nare-men) to say hello in Swedish if they run into someone unexpectedly. For this reason, airplanes with Swedes on board always chime with “nĂ€men!” The world is pretty small.
4. “Good morning” in Swedish – God morgon
Pleasingly, good morning in Swedish is straightforward. A simple god morgon will suffice. The âdâ and âgâ are often silent, so phonetically spelled it would be âgoo morronâ. Everyone says good morning, old and young, so donât worry about appearing too formal. For Swedes itâs about welcoming each other to the day ahead. You can also expect some Swedes to repeat this greeting: god morgon, god morgon!
5. “Good evening” in Swedish – God kvĂ€ll
Swedish TV shows that start in the evening usually start with an emphatic God kvĂ€ll! It means âgood eveningâ in Swedish, and kvĂ€ll is pronounced kvell. Itâs a pretty formal way of greeting someone, and as such youâll basically only hear it at formal gatherings or the theatre. Just as with good morning, the d is sometimes silent in the word “god“.

6. “Good night” in Swedish – Godnatt
The last thing you hear from Swedes at the end of the day is a yawn-stifled godnatt. It means goodnight, and itâs pronounced how itâs spelled. However, yet again, some Swedes drop the d and just say âgoo-nattâ. This isnât a formal greeting, and everyone says it as a customary last word before bedtime.
If you’re feeling really pleasant, you can wish a Swede a good night’s sleep by saying sov gott (soar-v gott”), meaning “sleep well”.

7. âWhatâs upâ in Swedish – Hur Ă€r/gĂ„r det?
First, be aware that young Swedes especially have been known to use the English phrase âwhatâs upâ as an introduction. After youâve said your hej or hej hej however, itâs customary to ask how the other person is. You do that by either asking hur Ă€r det? (how is it?) or hur gĂ„r det? (howâs it going?).
The only thing to observe when pronouncing either phrase is that the âtâ in âdetâ is silent.
Swedes will usually respond to this question with a âjo, tackâ (yeah, thanks) when asked either of these questions. Also be aware that that might just be the end of the conversation. Just as in most English-speaking countries, Swedes don’t like to delve into details with strangers.
8. “How are you” in Swedish – Hur mĂ„r du?
That leads us on to ask how someone is. You can use either of the previous phrases, or you can ask the more intimate question hur mĂ„r du? One thing to note is that âmĂ„râ is pronounced more or less the same as the English word âmoreâ.
As previously mentioned, this is a very personal question for Swedes to be faced with, so donât expect this from service personnel or similar – and donât ask them this, either. Small talk just isnât done in Sweden. If you’re friendly with the person however, you can expect this question to be answered in total, unwavering honesty. Ask with caution, unless you want to hear about how the person’s cat is sick, builders woke them up at 5am, or their kid puked on their iPad, etc.
9. “Goodbye” in Swedish – HejdĂ„
Goodbye in Swedish can be done in a couple of ways. The full, and most formal way of saying goodbye is hejdĂ„ (pronounced hey-door). But mostly, Swedes will wave you off with a âvi ses!â (see you!) or âvi hörs!â (talk soon).

10. “Thanks” in Swedish – Tack
Swedish manners might seem very peculiar if you arenât used to them. We donât have a word for please (sorry Canadians!), for instance. If you really canât live without it, you can say âĂ€r du snĂ€llâ which literally translates to âare you kindâ. Be aware that Swedes might look at you as if youâre a bit crazy if you say this too often.
Thanking is a big deal in Swedish, however, and there are a few occasions where itâs imperative you say thank you. The first is at the dinner table. Without fail, you must thank whoever provided dinner for you by saying tack för maten.
Another peccadillo is thanking someone for hanging out with you – âtack för sistâ. Not straight after youâve spent time together, oh no, thatâd be way too simple. But the next time you run into them, you say âtack för sistâ (thanks for the last). Young people might not bother with this one, but older people really appreciate it.
Also Read: 15 Ways to Say Thank You and Youâre Welcome in Swedish
11. âNice to meet youâ in Swedish – kul att trĂ€ffas
As I already mentioned, itâs customary to say kul att trĂ€ffas when you meet Swedes for the first time. Swedes will most likely respond to this by saying âroligtâ (fun). And then theyâll proceed to quiz you about your accent, hometown, culture, etc.
12. âI miss youâ in Swedish – Jag saknar dig
This one is kind of adorable and also heart wrenching. You see, when you say âI miss youâ in Swedish, you say Jag saknar dig. However, linguistically speaking, what youâre actually saying is You are missing from me, or, I am without you. Aww.

13. âCheersâ in Swedish – SkĂ„l
Researchers believe Swedes got the word for cheers, skĂ„l from our Viking ancestors. Etymologically speaking, skĂ„l is derived from the word ‘skull’, which itâs believed the vikings used to drink out of after battles. Yuck.
Anyway, Swedes say âskĂ„lâ an incredible amount of times during a formal dinner. Especially Midsommar, crayfish parties, or similar. Donât forget to look everyone in the eye at the table after youâve taken a sip, it’s considered very rude not to.
14. “Welcome” in Swedish – VĂ€lkommen/VĂ€lkomna
Whether youâre inviting other people into your home or being invited into someone else’s, you can expect to hear a word of welcome. This can be done in a few different ways. When a Swede answers the door, they might say vĂ€lkommen in (welcome in). Itâs more likely theyâll just say âkom inâ (come in), though.
At more formal occasions, use âvĂ€lkommenâ to welcome just one person, or âvĂ€lkomnaâ (plural) if there’s more than one.
15. “It’s been a while” in Swedish – Det var lĂ€ngesen
If itâs been ages since you saw your Swedish friend, you can murmur det var lĂ€ngesen into their shoulder as they crush you into a hug. Donât forget to leave the âtâ in âdetâ silent. Here’s how to pronounce the whole phrase, spelled phonetically: âdear var lengersennâ.
16. âWhatâs your name?â in Swedish – Vad heter du?
If youâre meeting someone new and you didnât catch their name, or youâve spotted a Scandi youâd like to get to know better, itâs always good to be able to ask what their name is. The phrase vad heter du? will come in handy for that. Hereâs how itâs pronounced, phonetically: vard hear-ter du?

17. “Make yourself comfortable” in Swedish – SlĂ„ dig/er ner
Literally translated, this phrase sounds a lot more violent than it actually is. Swedes say SlĂ„ dig ner (throw yourself down) when they mean âmake yourself comfortableâ. This is how most Swedes communicate to others that they donât need to remain standing in social situations. Use âerâ instead of âdigâ if thereâs more than one person, and remember that âerâand “ner” sound like or rhyme with the English word “near”.
18. “Congratulations” in Swedish – Grattis
If youâre in Sweden to celebrate a birthday, wedding, birth of a child or a graduation, the word to know is grattis. You can say this for any happy occasion if youâre congratulating another person. If you want to wow someone, say âgrattis pĂ„ födelsedagenâ (gratt-iss pour fur-dells-eh-darg-en) for happy birthday. If youâre writing it, donât forget that grattis has two tâs, gratis means free, as in complementary. It would be weird to see the word “free” in your birthday card, wouldn’t it?
Learn more in our article dedicated on saying “happy birthday” in Swedish.
19. “Enjoy your food” in Swedish – Smaklig mĂ„ltid
I told you we’d get around to some IKEA wall greetings, didn’t I? You might have seen smaklig mĂ„ltid wherever you go to grab your meatballs or princess cake, and yes, all it says is “enjoy your food”. But if you get a job in Sweden as a waiter or waitress, this quickly becomes the phrase you use most. Here’s how to pronounce it: “smark-ligg maul-teed.”
If this is said at the table of a dinner party, you can assume it’s alright to start eating. Informally though, Swedes favor the phrase hugg i meaning “tuck in”.
20. “Excuse me” in Swedish – UrsĂ€kta mig
First, a quick caveat. Swedes donât always excuse themselves the way English speakers do. Thatâs to say, if a Swede wants something, and youâre standing in front of it, expect to be shunted to one side. But if that gives you shivers, you can say ursĂ€kta mig to encourage others to move aside. Alternatively, if you want to stop someone on the street to help give you directions, âursĂ€kta migâ is a very polite way of stopping them in their tracks.
Family members in Swedish – Mamma, Pappa, Bror, Syster

In case you get introduced to someoneâs family, it can be useful to know whoâs who. Mom and dad in formal Swedish is mor and far, diminutives of the even more formal words moder and fader. These terms arenât common anymore in Sweden (the same as in English speaking countries, who calls their mom ‘mother’ for instance?).
Mom in Swedish is usually called mamma, and dad is pappa. Brother is bror, and sister is the easiest to remember as she’s simply your syster.
Names for grandparents in Swedish are interesting, as weâve come up with a way to stack our relatives. Not literally, youâll be glad to know. Your motherâs mother in Swedish is mormor (literally, mom’s mom), and your fatherâs mother is farmor (dad’s mom). Swedes are literal minded, so this model works for nearly every member of the family.
This stacking approach also works with the Swedish word for grandchildren – barnbarn (kid’s kids). Oh and Swedes have a wonderful name for step-children, bonusbarn. Yep, bonus kids.
Untranslatable Swedish words

Okay, so they can be translated. But what I really mean is, these are words that arenât yet in the English language, and their literal translations donât actually tell you what they mean. Just as a treat, here are some weird and wonderful Swedish words we need in English.
- Revirpinne: You know the divider that goes on the conveyor belt at the grocery store to separate your goods from someone elseâs? Well Swedes call that a revirpinne, or literally translated, territory-stick.Â
- Smunka: Ever told your friends you couldnât hit the bars and given a lame excuse, just so you could stay home with your girlfriend or boyfriend? Swedes call that excuse a âsmunkaâ
- Bygga en nalle: For Americans, Build-a-Bear is a store where little kidsâ dreams come true. To build a bear or, bygga en nalle, in Swedish isnât quite as adorable. It means âto go for a poopâ.
- Hemmablind: You know that phrase about not being able to see the forest through all the trees? Well Swedes use just one word for that, and itâs hemmablind (home blind).Â
- Snuskhummer: Weirdos who haunt bars and clubs, insisting on trying to hit on people in a gross manner have many names in English. Swedes would call one such weirdo a âsnuskhummerâ, âa dirty lobsterâ.
Now you know 20 Swedish phrases, including how to say hello in Swedish, to make your next conversation with a Swede all the more free-flowing. We barely scratched the surface here, so let us know in the comments below what you want to learn about Swedish! And as for fellow Swedish speakers, help me share regional slang in the comments (I’m no expert on Göteborgska).
Also Read:
- 100+ Swedish Words And Phrases You Need To Master
- How to Say Happy Birthday in Swedish and Celebrate it, Swedish-Style!
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